Who it's for
Adults using it voluntarily — not couples in crisis.
For committed partners who want a calmer, more structured way to talk about the things that keep coming up.
Who it is built for
- Verified adults age 18 or older located in New York (initial availability)
- Committed couples who keep having the same argument
- Partners discussing communication, schedules, responsibilities, finances, parenting or family obligations
- People who want general information and a structured conversation rather than a professional service
- Both partners willing to spend 15 minutes a week, voluntarily
Who it is not for
- Anyone in danger, or facing coercion or abuse
- Anyone seeking psychological assessment, counseling, therapy, treatment or crisis intervention
- One partner trying to analyze or fix an absent partner
- Anyone needing a diagnosis, safety assessment or professional relationship advice
If you are in danger, stop and dial 911, or call or text 988.
Automated screening
— and its limits.
Messages are screened for self-harm, violence and fear-of-partner language, and matching language may stop the activity and display 911, 988, crisis-text or other resources.
Automated detection can make errors and cannot determine intent or risk. Couple Advisors does not monitor in real time, assess safety, or promise to intervene.
The questions
General topics, introduced for discussion.
The thirty questions introduce subjects the couple may want to talk about. They are not psychological tests, and they produce no clinical score, diagnosis, risk classification, or professional conclusion.
Communication
Listening, expressing preferences, and discussing disagreements
Shared expectations
Schedules, responsibilities, finances, parenting, family obligations
Outside demands
How work, time demands and other responsibilities may affect communication
Optional activities
User-selected listening and discussion activities for general use
What the answers are never turned into
No clinical scoring
No score for attachment, emotional safety or relationship stability
No risk classification
No score for compatibility, conflict severity or escalation risk
No conclusions
Similar and different answers are displayed, never interpreted